Even after I got the most important things out of the way, my maiden name seemed to come out of the woodwork months later, just when I thought I changed my name everywhere. Here is a list of the things I am talking about: 

From Hola to Aloha we had a pretty epic honeymoon.

Start with your preliminary guest list. Sit down with your fiance and make a spreadsheet of guests who YOU BOTH want to invite.

We live in a culture where waiting to have sex until after marriage is few and far between.

We went to Specialty Produce in San Diego-a hidden gem where they are essentially a farmers market type warehouse.

For example, statistics show that couples who pray together daily have less than a 1% chance of divorce.

Since the murder of George Floyd, I’ve been doing a lot of watching and a lot of listening. Conflicted and lost are two good words to describe how I feel.

Keep your standards high, and don’t be willing to settle. It can be easy to ignore red flags because you really like someone. Ask yourself-can I live with this trait for the rest of my life?